How Can We Discuss Race as Friends?
The book, Dear White Friend, is designed to be an on ramp to the topic of race. The Dear White Friend Discussion Guide is a resource to help facilitate conversations around race and challenge participants’ way of thinking. Others may be more versed and confident and even certain of themselves and their views. To get the most out of this discussion it should be accessible to all. The most important element of these discussions is to insist the tone is reflective of care and consideration.
Download the Dear White Friend Discussion Guide now to access:
A Note From Melvin J. Gravely, II - author of Dear White Friend
Mel’s 3-Part Discussion Framework & Questions
The Participant Guide with My Committed Actions worksheet
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What People Are Saying:
“The entire book felt like a collection of coffee date conversations between two friends, providing well needed education…unlike many of the books I have already read, this is one of the few that offered suggestions for things that most everyone is in a position to do. This book would be an excellent choice for book clubs who want a basis for an introduction to systemic racism and equity and find empowerment.”
— Susan
“I applaud Mel's courage in sharing the personal stories of his successful career. They help underscore the realities of race in America. But Mel goes further than just highlighting challenges and injustice. Mel offers some practical and thought-provoking suggestions for creating a more equitable environment.
As I desire to make a positive impact in my sphere of influence, I am grateful for Mel's voice and his contribution to my learning and understanding. It's not about being "Woke" - it is about serving others. "Dear White Friend" helps expand our perspective, increases our sensitivity, and calls us to unite.”
— Anonymous
“I would recommend this book to my white friends who seek better understanding and to my black friends as I am about to ask you about your experiences and how we can make a difference together.
This book is action-oriented, but from a personal level, not a systemic level, although acknowledging and deciding to do something about systemic racism feels possible after reading this.”